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You teach people how to treat you.
You teach people how to treat you.

You teach people how to treat you.

Sharalyn Payne Aug 19, 2018 Blog

You teach people how to treat you. Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option. ~Dr. Maya Angelou How many times do we make someone a priority that makes us an option?  We are all guilty of it.  We

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You Still Have Time
You Still Have Time

You Still Have Time

Sharalyn Payne Mar 24, 2016 Career / Business Inspiration Success Skills

It’s Not Too Late… Last year, I was so elated to be a featured speaker in the “It’s Not Too Late” Tele-Summit.  Why? Because so many people have given up hope.  So many people have given up on their dreams.  This tele-summit was designed to eliminate

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You Have To Know When To Walk Away
You Have To Know When To Walk Away

You Have To Know When To Walk Away

Sharalyn Payne Apr 29, 2016 Career / Business Relationships Success Skills

I love relationships – deep connections rather. Connections are vital to your success. The right connections can change the trajectory of your life. I become so excited when I have the opportunity to connect and build meaningful relationships.

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You Choose the Title:
You Choose the Title:

You Choose the Title:

Sharalyn Payne Oct 10, 2016 Career / Business Leadership

Check out the conversation between an employee and the manager.  The employee had just told the manager that there were two unexpected deaths within the past week and the manager showed no empathy, but proceeded to inform the employee that he/she was one of several

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You Are NOT Fooling Anyone, So Stop It
You Are NOT Fooling Anyone, So Stop It

You Are NOT Fooling Anyone, So Stop It

Sharalyn Payne Aug 19, 2018 Blog

I was speaking with my friend this morning as she was on her way into the office and we had a really good conversation.  She used to drive me crazy with her obsession and focus on material things, but now she is different.  It’s as

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What would happen if you devoted more energy to achieving your dreams?
What would happen if you devoted more energy to achieving your dreams?

What would happen if you devoted more energy to achieving your dreams?

Sharalyn Payne Aug 19, 2018 Blog

What would happen if you devoted more energy to achieving your dreams? There’s a one degree difference between hot water and steam.  Turn it up. ~Antonio Adair The one degree difference makes all the difference.  Hot water is produced at 99 degrees Celsius or 212

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WELCOME
WELCOME

WELCOME

Sharalyn Payne Mar 10, 2016 Inspiration

I’m being transparent right now. I am a person who loves to connect with others one-on-one. There is something invigorating about exchanging energy with a person with who is right there with you.

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This Way Is Up
This Way Is Up

This Way Is Up

Sharalyn Payne Apr 05, 2016 Leadership

Your thoughts and the way you see yourself can either take you or they can take you down.  If that’s the case, then let’s go up!  So often, I have found that if I believe a certain way about a particular situation, the outcome actually

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The Bachelor
The Bachelor

The Bachelor

Sharalyn Payne Mar 31, 2016 Inspiration Relationships

I don’t watch a lot of television, but I do have a couple of favorites one is The Bachelor. As I was watching The Bachelor, I almost got a little teary-eyed as I wondered if I would ever have the opportunity to experience true love.

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Success Principles
Success Principles

Success Principles

Sharalyn Payne Mar 17, 2016 Inspiration Success Skills

East High – Home of the Lady Mustangs is where I met a legend who would have a long-lasting impact on my life.  It was there I believed I truly developed the WILL TO WIN!

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Strategies for Launching Out Into the Deep
Strategies for Launching Out Into the Deep

Strategies for Launching Out Into the Deep

Sharalyn Payne Mar 22, 2016 Leadership Success Skills

Launching out into the deep can be daunting. It requires you to live a little on the edge and for most of us – that is not the place we want to be.  Many of us want more, but we want to be in control. 

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Put Up Some Walls
Put Up Some Walls

Put Up Some Walls

Sharalyn Payne Jun 29, 2016 Inspiration Relationships

It’s important to not allow everyone to speak into your life. Don’t take in what everyone says to you. Consider both the message and the source. Don’t give everyone permission to speak into your life. Sometimes the words people speak can be powerful catapulting you

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Never make a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you.
Never make a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you.

Never make a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you.

Sharalyn Payne Aug 19, 2018 Blog

I remember being so crazy about this man and wanting to spend the rest of my life with him.  We often discussed marriage and our future.  There came a time when he began to say that I deserved better than him and my response was

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Love Your Gift and Fully Commit To It
Love Your Gift and Fully Commit To It

Love Your Gift and Fully Commit To It

Sharalyn Payne Apr 07, 2016 Inspiration

Have you ever wanted another gift?  At various points in my life, I have really wished I had so many other gifts that I believed to be better. If only I was gifted in small talk…  If I could dance, I wouldn’t sit down… Well,

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Like the fire needs the air, I won’t burn unless you’re there. ~ Curtis Jackson
Like the fire needs the air, I won’t burn unless you’re there. ~ Curtis Jackson

Like the fire needs the air, I won’t burn unless you’re there. ~ Curtis Jackson

Sharalyn Payne Sep 26, 2016 Inspiration

This is a line from one of my favorite songs. Have you ever been fueled by the energy that is created when you know people are looking and waiting for you to fail? I have been all too familiar with this energy. Although it is

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Is There More To You Than What Meets The Eye?
Is There More To You Than What Meets The Eye?

Is There More To You Than What Meets The Eye?

Sharalyn Payne Mar 15, 2016 Career / Business Relationships

I was speaking with someone whom I have known for quite sometime now. During our conversation, she proceeded to tell me all of her conclusions that she had come to regarding me. I found this to be interesting because she didn’t really know me.

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I’m Not Going That Way
I’m Not Going That Way

I’m Not Going That Way

Sharalyn Payne May 16, 2016 Inspiration Relationships

We see it over and over again and we’ve heard it since we were kids. “Birds of a feather…” You know the rest. I remember a few months ago a person whom I thought was a close friend told me that she wasn’t going that

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Five Simple Steps to Overcome Negative Thinking
Five Simple Steps to Overcome Negative Thinking

Five Simple Steps to Overcome Negative Thinking

Sharalyn Payne Oct 03, 2016 Leadership Success Skills

What you feed, you produce. It takes just as much energy to focus on the negative as it does to focus on the positive. So, why not envision yourself achieving the goal instead of failing or missing the mark? For some, focusing on the positive

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Every Positive Thought Propels You in the Right Direction
Every Positive Thought Propels You in the Right Direction

Every Positive Thought Propels You in the Right Direction

Sharalyn Payne Jul 28, 2016 Inspiration Success Skills

Oh my gosh! Life has thrown me some blows that I thought I would never recover from. There have been some battles that left me almost hopeless. What helped me make it through my dark nights and lonely moments was saturating myself with positive thoughts,

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Dream Killer
Dream Killer

Dream Killer

Sharalyn Payne Apr 12, 2016 Inspiration Leadership
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